The Islamic Council of Jamaica that blamed dancehall music for the ills of the island is now saying that these ills could be solved if Jamaica starts practicing polygamy.
“I don’t understand why it is a situation where it is being looked upon as such a disadvantage, when to me, it has practical use. I think it can solve a lot of our problems,” said Rashidah Khan-Haqq, a member of the council.
If Jamaican men were allowed to have more than one wife, the country would be less burdened with issues of delinquency, infidelity, single parenthood and high crime rate, according to Miss Khan-Haqq.
“Everywhere I go, it is the first question they ask me, especially the men. They say ‘I want to come into your religion because I can have four wives,” said Khan-Haqq. “But they don’t understand that there are rules and there are conditions. You can have a man being married to up to four wives, [but] of course treating them equally, both financially and emotionally.”
Miss Khan-Haqq argued that the culture of a man having a ‘bag a gyal’ is more a cause for concern than a man having as many as four women calling him husband, and for whom he is responsible.
“I will have people looking down on me and saying I’m at a disadvantage because my husband can have four wives. But at the same time, these same housewives, when the man is out there cheating with God knows who, you are there sitting down thinking that your husband is faithful but he is not. People don’t look at that as a serious problem, and that to me is a worse disadvantage,” she reasoned.
“I know that if I see a child on the road and it looks like my husband, I know it is his other wife’s child. And I don’t have to find out 10 years down the line that it is his child, and say ‘oh, I was wondering why it looked like him’,” she said.
Acting president of the Islamic Council of Jamaica, Mekaeel Maknoon, explained that there are at least three Islamic males living on the island with more than one wife. Those persons, he said, were married overseas and came to the island as wedded couples.
He explained, however, that there are specific circumstances in which a man can have more than one wife in a religious context, without encroaching on Jamaican civil laws against polygamy.
“When an Islamic man marries based on civil law, he would be granted a civil certificate, and he would also be performing the religious ceremony that goes with it as well. So he will also get a certificate that states that he is married in accordance with Islamic laws, as well as in accordance with the law of the land,” Maknoon explained.
“If he decides to marry a second wife, he would only be able to marry her in accordance with religious laws and he would get a religious certificate; not a certificate that states that that woman is his wife in accordance with civil laws. So he would have one certificate based on civil laws, but he would have as many religious certificates for whatever number of wives he can. Because they (wives), too, need to know that they are married in accordance with religious laws,” he explained.